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God, Marriage and Family -- Rebuilding the Biblical Foundation
by Andreas J. Kostenberger, Ph.D. and David W. Jones Ph.D.
© 2010 (Crossway: Wheaton, IL). All rights reserved. [400 pages but only 288 pages of reading material].
[Answer 21 of 30 questions correctly to receive 28 hours of Continuing Education credit]
 

Chapter 2 – Leaving and Cleaving: Marriage in the Old Testament (p. 21-49)
1. When Genesis 1:27 refers to men and women being made in the image of God, it means
a. to possess intelligence, a will, and emotions.
b. to have the ability to be creative.
c. to rule the earth for God.
d. to love others.


2. Which is NOT true?
a. Marriage is God's idea, created as a monogamous, heterosexual relationship between one man and one woman. It is a complementarity, where the man and woman have equal worth but different roles.
b. A husband's duties to his wife included loving and cherishing her, treating her with respect and dignity, assuming the primary responsibility for her and their children, and providing his family with food, clothing, and other necessities.
c. A wife's duties to her husband included bearing children, managing the household, and providing companionship.
d. The fact that Abraham, Jacob, King David, King Solomon, and other godly individuals all had multiple wives indicates that God approved of polygamy in the Old Testament.

3. Which is NOT a characteristic of the excellent wife in Proverbs 31?
a. is industrious and hardworking.
b. rises early in the morning.
c. is praised by her husband and children.
d. is limited by her domestic activities.

4. Song of Solomon 7:10 reflects God's original intent of marriage in which the husband desires his wife. This is in contrast to after the fall of man, in which the woman's desire for her husband
a. seeks his ultimate welfare.
b. seeks to support and encourage him.
c. seeks to control or manipulate him.
d. seeks to be his helper and companion.

Chapter 3 – No Longer Two, But One (p. 51-67)
5. Which is NOT true?
a. In I Peter 3:7, Paul acknowledges the differences between a husband and wife (referring to the wife as “the weaker vessel”) while asserting their equality in Christ (referring to wives as “heirs with you of the grace of life”)
b. In I Corinthians 7:2-5, Paul establishes the spiritual supremacy of singleness over marriage.
c. In Ephesians 3:14-15, when Paul called God “the father from whom every family on earth is named”, he is identifying God as the one who both established marriage and has rightful jurisdiction over it.
d. A wife's submission to her husband is not slavery, subservience, or even hierarchical. Rather, the biblical model for marriage is that of a loving complementarity where the husband and wife are partners who value and respect each other and where the husband's loving leadership is met with the wife's intelligent response. If Christ chooses to submit to God the Father while being equal in worth and personhood, there is no good reason why God could not have designed the huband-and-wife relationship in such a way that the wife is called to submit to the man while likewise being equal in worth and personhood.

Chapter 4 – The Nature of Marriage and the Role of Sex in Marriage: God's Purpose for Making Man Male and Female (p. 69-84)
6. Which is NOT true?
a. Marriage itself does not mystically dispense divine grace (the sacramental view).
b. The contractual view of marriage basis the security and stability of marriage on the husband's and wife's devotion to Christ.
c. On the basis of Genesis 2:24, the covenant view of marriage holds that marriage is ordained and sealed by God, consummated in sexual union, issuing in a permanently, mutually supportive partnership, and normally crowned by the gift of children.
d. If a non-Christian couple converts to Christ, they do not need to get married again.


7. What is God's first purpose for sex in marriage?
a. to create children (Genesis 2:18)
b. to provide companionship and prevent loneliness (Genesis 2:18)
c. to maintain order in society.
d. to provide a husband and wife pleasure without shame, guilt, or fear.

Chapter 5 – The Ties that Bind: Family in the Old Testament (p. 85-97)
8. Which is NOT true?
a. The authors favor the term “patriarchal” (the father in charge of the household) instead of the term “patricentrism” (centered around the father) to best describe the ancient Israelite family structure.
b. In the Old Testament, a father's responsibility toward his sons was to instruct them in wisdom, develop their character and skills for life and vocation, and discipline them when they erred.
c. In the Old Testament, wives often exerted great influence over their husbands.
d. In the Old Testament, respect for parents was so important that the prophet Ezekiel cites disrespect for one's parents as one of the reasons for the fall of Jerusalem and the destruction of the temple in 586 BC.


9. In the Old Testament, good parenting is of supreme importance because
a. adult children will most likely follow the path their parents showed them when they were young, according to Proverbs 22:6.
b. God commands all parents to teach their children about Him (Deuteronomy 6:4-9)
c. Scripture commands parents to teach their children a host of positive values such as industriousness, kindness, purity, and self-control. They also are to administer discipline for misbehavior, and help deter their children from pleasure seeking (Proverbs 21:17), partying, overeating and drinking (Proverbs 23:20-21; 28:7), and arrogance and vanity (Proverbs 21:24).
d. All of the above.

Chapter 6 – The Christian Family: Family in the New Testament (p. 99-116)
10. According to Jesus, the quality in children that is most representative of kingdom virtues is
a. innocence.
b. cheerfulness.
c. low status
d. hunger for learning

11. From Ephesians chapter 6, what is “the first commandment with a promise”?
a. To children: Honor your father and mother.
b. To fathers: Do not provoke your children.
c. To slaves: With good will render service, as to the Lord, not men.
d. To masters: Give up threatening.


12. Which best describes the biblical teaching about women and their families?
a. The Bible restricts most women to the home (Proverbs 31).
b. The Bible presents motherhood as the woman's highest calling and privilege.
c. The Bible encourages women to strive for equality among men.
d. The Bible teaches women to seek self-fulfillment.

Chapter 7 -- To Have or Not Have Children: Special Issues Related to the Family (Part 1) (p. 117-137)
13. Consider these Scriptures:
Psalm 139:13 "For You (God) formed my inward parts;
You wove me in my mother's womb."
Jeremiah 1:5 "
Before I formed you in the womb I knew you."
Exodus 21:22-25 One who harms an unborn child must be punished "life for life...wound for wound."
What do all these Scriptures teach?
a. Human life begins at conception.
b. A fetus in the womb is not yet a person.
c. Human life begins at birth.
d. A pregnant mother has more rights than her unborn child.

14. According to biblical teaching about when human life begins, all of the following methods of contraception are acceptable EXCEPT
a. a diaphragm.
b. a condom.
c. a spermicide.
d. the RU-486 morning after pill.

15. Which of the following methods of acquiring children do the authors NOT support?
a. artificial insemination of the wife with her husband's sperm.
b. a couple receiving a donor egg or donor sperm from a third party.
c. a couple who humbly accepts their inability to conceive children.
d. adoption

Chapter 8 -- Requiring the Wisdom of Solomon: Special Issues Related to the Family (Part 2) (. 139-165)
16. Which is NOT true?
a. Focusing on a parenting method of rewards and punishments can produce consistent behavior in children. Conversely, it can also sacrifice flexibility and the constant adjustment that is needed in the various stages of child development.
b. After divorce, custodial mothers usually do not have to work because of alimony and child support payments made by the non-custodial fathers.
c. Not all spanking is abusive. It can be an effective form of discipline with some young children, when administered without anger and without physical harm to the child.
d. It is important to raise boys and girls with distinctive masculine and feminine identities.

17. Which is NOT true about parental discipline?
a. Parents should make clear that unacceptable behaviors will be followed by consequences.
b. The punishment should fit the offense.
c. The same method should be used for each child.
d. Consequences should be administered in love, not anger.

Chapter 9 -- Undivided Devotion to the Lord: The Divine Gift of Singleness (p. 167-198)
18. What is NOT true about singleness?
a. In the Old Testament, singleness was generally viewed as undesirable while marriage was the norm.
b. In the New Testament, marriage was still the norm but singleness was viewed as a positive way to serve God.
c. The medieval period with its monasteries and nunneries idealized singleness, and by the 12th century singleness was mandated for all church leadership (Catholic priests).
d. Today singleness is valued and honored by most local churches.

19. Which of the following contributes to a high and honorable view of singleness?
a. Singleness is a reminder that one enters God's family through a spiritual birth, not a physical birth.
b. As a single man, Jesus lived an exemplary life of service to God.
c. Jesus taught that there will be no marriage in heaven (Luke 20:34-36)
d. All of the above.

20. What is the biblical standard for sexual behavior among singles?
a. It is practical for a single man and woman to live together before marriage, to see if they are compatible.
b. God expects all singles to practice sexual abstinence before marriage. This requires self-control, modesty in appearance, and not living together while unmarried.
c. Sexual involvement prior to marriage is permitted if the couple is engaged to be married.
d. If a couple truly loves each other and uses birth control, God permits them to have sex while unmarried.

21. While biblical passages addressed specifically to young men focus on the need for self-control and on guarding against sexual temptation, Scripture's primary emphasis with regard to women, including young women, is that of
a. submission to authority.
b. caution against being manipulative or deceptive.
c. modesty in appearance.
d. seeking a godly husband.

22. What does the Bible NOT teach about women who were "true widows"?
a. Any woman whose husband dies is considered a true widow, no matter what her age (I Timothy 5:9).
b. True widows have no relatives to care for them. (I Timothy 5:4)
c. A true widow does not indulge in a pleasure-seeking lifestyle. (I Timothy 5:6)
d. A true widow was faithful to her husband while he was alive, and she now lives in prayerful dependence upon God. (I Timothy 5:9 and I Timothy 5:5)

Chapter 10 -- Abandoning Natural Relations (p. 199-222)
23. According to the author, the offenders at Sodom and Gomorrah in Genesis 19 (and Jude 6-7 and II Peter 2:4-10)
a. had just uncontrollable sexual desires.
b. had uncontrollable and unnatural sexual desires.
c. were only guilty of wanting to commit gang rape.
d. were only guilty of inhospitality.

24. The author's view of Leviticus 18:22 is that the behavior described is forbidden
a. only when it occurs in idol worship.
b. for ancient people, not modern people.
c. only when accompanied by prostitution.
d. always, because it is an abomination (to'ebah) like other behavior (incest, adultery, bestiality).


25. The Greek word
arsenokoites which occurs in Romans 1:18-32, I Corinthians 6:9-10, and I Timothy 1:9-10 refers to
a. child molestors.
b. same-sex behavior only during Old Testament times.
c. only negative, dehumanizing sexual behavior.
d. all same-sex acts and orientation.

Chapter 11 -- Separating What God Has Joined Together: Divorce and Remarriage (p. 223-238)

26. Although there is no universal agreement among Bible-believing Christians as to the exact meaning of the Greek word
porneia in Matthew 19:3-12, what CAN we conclude from Christ's teaching about marriage?
a. Jesus (not Paul) allowed for divorce for nonsexual reasons.
b. Jesus permitted divorce in the case of sexual immorality, but He did not require it. He believed any divorce was a tragic departure from God's original design of marriage.
c. Jesus required a higher standard of marital faithfulness for wives than He did for husbands.
d. Jesus clearly allowed for remarriage after divorce.

27. Which of the following best represents the teaching of Paul regarding divorce and remarriage?
a. Paul taught that a believing spouse can remarry if that spouse has been abandoned (I Corinthinans 7:12-16).
b. Paul taught in Romans 7:1-4 that a married couple may never divorce. Only death frees them to remarry.
c. All orthodox views recognize that Paul acknowledges in I Corinthians 7:15 that a divorce may occur if it is initiated by an unbelieving spouse. Christians disagree over whether or not the believing spouse can remarry.
d. Paul allows for divorce in situations of physical abuse.

Chapter 12 -- Faithful Husbands -- Qualifications for Church Leadership (p. 239-248)

28. Regarding the phrase
mias gynaikas andra in I Timothy 3:2, the author concludes that if refers to
a. men who have never been divorced.
b. only men who are currently married, not single men.
c. faithful husbands.
d. a prohibition of remarried widowers.

29. Christian fathers who have teenage children who occasionally disobey and rebel cannot qualify as church leaders.
a. True
b. False

Chapter 13 -- God, Marriage, Family, and the Church (p. 249-267)
30. What does the author conclude about the role of the family and the role of the church?
a. Churches should always have their calendars full of events and activities to keep families growing in Christlikeness.
b. The Scriptures teach that families should worship together in church without being separated into age groups.
c. It is as much a father's duty to teach spiritual disciplines to his family as it is the duty of a local church's leaders to teach spiritual disciplines.
d. The worldwide Christian church is primarily made up of intact families with a husband, a wife, and their children.